
The origin story
Why Didn't He Know I Existed?
1st edition
The glance problem, explained. Why a look that felt obvious to you never landed — and how to be seen now.
£15.00
First, second and third editions, plus a listen-ready audiobook file. The unabridged bibliography volume is still in formatting and is not listed. Lenses sit on a separate pre-order so the money can be held until 500.

The origin story
1st edition
The glance problem, explained. Why a look that felt obvious to you never landed — and how to be seen now.
£15.00

2nd edition
The expanded reader edition: scenarios, diagrams, and the visual-bridge method in a cleaner layout.
£16.00

Current edition
3rd edition
The Direct Gaze Strategy. Central spotlight versus peripheral glow, with tools you can use the same day.
£18.00

Listen-ready
The same 3rd edition, set for listening — on the train, in the bath, or while the day is happening around you.
£18.00

Pre-order · 500 to release
Cosmetic lenses that let you experience the narrow central spotlight men live with. Pre-order held until we reach 500, then a licensed UK optician fulfils.
£79.00